. Just so you know, girls want to smell you from 10, 6, or even 2 feet away.

Girls HATE players!!!!

. Most girls would rather cuddle than makeout (unless they’re sluts)

We love it when you put your arm around us at the movies.(especially the scary ones)

We don’t need you to be Superman. We just need you to be there.

Please, if you really need to talk about your size, use your guy friends, not us.

. Pretty much all girls like to talk about something, so feel free to call us.

.We LOVE suprises, that is , the good ones.

Don’t ever try to impress us by cursing or fighing. It doesn’t work; you just look like a jerk.

When you pick on the girl you like, she won’t think your interested or cool. She’ll just think that you’re mean. (Ah the logic.. of girls…)

. Every girl wants to feel special, even if its just to you.

.Being able to make your girl laugh = MAJOR brownie points!

.Guitarists = sexy Pianists = sensitivty

We absolutly HATE it when you break a promise to us. It completely devastates us.

.Here’s something that girls are tought: When a guy says that you’re hot, he’s looking at your body. When he says that you’re pretty, he’s looking at your face. When he says that you’re beautiful, he’s looking at your heart. Remember that when you complement a girl……

. Ask any girl… She’ll have no idea what the hell a guy means when he says that she’s "cute".

. We can tell when you aren’t listening, and, yeah, it kind of pisses us off. If were boring you, at least have the decensy to tell us!

. When we say the we’re cold, we either want you to come closer or give us your jacket. Tip: If you really want to impress your girl, hold her tight and put your jacket around her while you’re still wearing it. Its amazingly romantic! (as long as you don’t grope her)

. Hugs can mean more than kisses sometimes.

. If you wait for the perfect moment, the perfect momnet will pass you by. In other words, if you want to ask her out, just do it!

. We’d really appreciate it if you didn’t hold the things we do during our time of the month against us. It isn’t exactly our fault, and we aren’t being ourselves.

.Please give us the same respect you would to any other human and look us in the eyes. (yes we do notice when your eyes wander)

.We want the same respect that you give to other guys, but we really don’t want you to treat us like them…(chest bumbs are never ok)

.Never cheat!!! Girls know how to spread news fast so you don’t just ruin one relationship, you prevent others from happening too.

. When you’re on a date with a girl, keep your eyes on her face and off other girls’ bodies. That’s just rude.

.Not all girls are about money. The one who are give us all a bad name.

. It’s weird when you take longer to get ready than we do….

.If you ask us nicely, we’ll usually answer in the same way.

. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.

. Not all women are bad drivers.

. Not all women are ditzes.

. Anything you say or do with
another girl that you don’t want us to know is considered cheating.

. When you say you don’t like it when we wear makeup, don’t just leave it at that. It helps to tell us why.

. It absolutely floors us when you know our favorite color, shoe size, flower, T.V. show, movie, artist, etc. See, we aren’t that hard to please.

. This one may seem weird. We love keeping your hoodies/jackets because: they remind us of you, they smell like you, and it makes us feel like you’re there holding us even when you aren’t.
. NEVER EVER HIT A GIRL!!!!!!!!! Even if she hits you first….it’s just wrong.

. When you’re dating a girl and you introduce her to your friends, you had better say that she’s your girlfriend.

. When it comes to gifts, we’d prefer something that has meaning rather than something with a big pricetag.

. The best thing that you can be to any girl is her friend. Friendship always comes before any good romantic relationship.

. Have I metioned that we like respect?

All girls want to be told I LOVE YOU now and then and possibly whisper it in her ear when you are having a moment.

. Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means she’s attracted to you, but she’s afraid that she’ll be showing too much.

. When you calm a girl down (and believe me, you will need to do this someday), try your hardest to make her laugh, but never make her feel stupid for being so worked up in the first place.

If you go through our purse, you probably won’t like what you see. So please don’t even bother going through it or you will get bitch slapped.

. Keep in mind that pretty much every girl has a group of guys(friends, brothers and her Daddy) who will beat the crap out of you if cross the line.

. Girls dont like show-offs. Just be yourself we’ll like you better that way and if a girl dosent like the real you she’s not
Yes, I’m wasting 5 points for you.

Well, I read the whole thing and alot of it was interesting, some of it was a "duh!", some of it was things I never would’ve figured out in my entire life. Even though its not a question, I’m glad you posted it. It should be a good idea to post this someplace where it fits though. If not enough people have read it, then re post it. Is it really 257 things? O.O

guy in the bottome said he was the only guy, wtf? am I that feminine?

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We both go to different schools, I’m a Sophomore at a new school this year, and I’m pretty shy, so I wasn’t meeting very many new people. Anyway, we still talked all the time, and I saw him at least once a week, a lot of the time 2 or 3 times… on weekdays and stuff, and we would text on a daily basis.

Now, my mom makes my home life incredibly upsetting, like, 99% of the time, but I tried not to complain about it. I only did complain about it a few times to him, I tried to keep it to myself unless he asked about it.

Everything is going great, then one day, we both went to help my Mother out at her shop, cause we both could have used a little extra money.
He acted kind of upset all day, so I asked him what’s wrong, he said "I’ll tell you when we’re alone"
So, we went to the back of the shop to clean some more, and I said "Really, are you okay?"

He said "Do you think you would be happier if you had a boyfriend at your school?"

Me: "Of course not! I care about who the person is, not whether they go to my school, or whether I see them daily."

Him: "I really want you to be happy. This is insanely hard for me to say, but I really want you to try to find someone at your school, I think you’d be happier that way. Besides, when we get back together, we’ll be so happy to see eachother, and I think the relationship will grow even more."

He thought that I wasn’t making an attempt to meet new people, and if we didn’t have a relationship, I’d try to meet people more.

I told him it was just my nature, I don’t speak to people unless they speak to me first, usually. Whether we were in a relationship or not I’d still act the same.

He still wanted me to try to meet somebody else, cause he thought I’d be happier seeing my boyfriend on a daily basis. So he said:

"We should take a break. You’re free to go up to kissing a guy… or whatever you want, I’d just prefer that’d be the most that you go. I mean, it’s gonna kill me if you do, but I really want you to be happy. Try and find somebody in these 2 weeks, please."

so I asked him a few questions about it, and we discussed it.

We agreed to take a break, 2 weeks. He said I could do anything I wanted with guys (I wasn’t planning on doing ANYTHING at all), and he said he wouldn’t even think about doing anything with a girl. He’s been cheated on before, so have I, and we both trusted eachother.
We could still talk to eachother, maybe hang out, but no relationship stuff. Just friends.

I was incredibly confused by this, but I went along with it.

We still kept our status to "In A Relationship" on our myspace, and still kept eachother as top friends (both number 2, right below our bestfriends), still texted, not too often though.
We only talked if we actually had something to say, never just "How are you!? " and carry on from there.
We hung out once within the two weeks, just as friends. It was kinda weird, but I still went along with it.

We were supposed to get back together Friday (Oct. 16), so on Thursday (Oct. 15) I texted him saying "Where the Wild Things Are comes out tomorrow, would you like to go see it with me? " It was his favorite book as a kid, and we’d planned on seeing it together weeks prior to our break.

He said "I have plans, sorry."
I said "Oh, it’s fine."

I figured he’d love having a great makeup day, since we hadn’t seen eachother in almost 2 weeks. I had an amazing evening planned out, and I was going to buy him a gift, something for his guitar, to celebrate.

We hadn’t talked about this whole break at all during the 2 week period, and I decided to ask him about it saying "So… tomorrow is Friday… end of the 2 weeks… what’s your decision on it?

He said: "I told Ashley I’d hang out with her."

I mean, on a regular day I’d be fine with him hanging out with a good friend, but this was the day we were supposed to get back together, happily.

I said "Not about what you’re doing, that’s fine.. I mean, with our break..?"

He said "Oh… I don’t know yet."

It’s been 2 days since we were supposed to get back together…
did I do something wrong?
Maybe we spent too much time together?

We both RARELY like anybody, It’s not just a new crush every few months. We were completely fine with being single. He told me he’s never felt this way. He told me he truly liked me. All of his friends said he acted different around me than all his other girlfriends. He told me I was the only girlfriend his friends not only liked, but loved.

I need someone elses point of view on this… cause I know there could be something that I’m just blind to because I’m the actual person going through it.

Hey… i can sense many things going on here –

maybe hes cheating on you
maybe hes not cheating but definitely taking a break (a long one) from you
maybe he has some friends advising him to do this, even if hes not willing to
I can sense that he doesnt want to be with you. If he really likes you, he would always try to be with you. in 3 months, a guy doesnt get bored of his GF (unless he doesnt like her / has another one)
may be he wants to focus on his career. or he likes someone else and doesnt want to cheat on you.

my advise is – if you want him back / things to be normal again – dont be clingy / dont cry / beg / get really angry or something. He knows what he is doing is not normal in any relationship. So just make him realize that you put in everything in this relationship and he is not. Also, be really strong and show that. maybe hes not telling you the reason he is acting weird is probably he thinks youll get all emotional and blame him for "playing with my heart" sort of thing.

So if you wanna know whats wrong, be patient and carry on with your life, school, be near your parents to divert attention from what is going on in your life and show him that you are just fine. Dont text him too much. youll find out the real thing in a week or two. get one of your friends to give you information about him from time to time. please dont get obsessed about it. Hope this helps.

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I know I want a camera that has good low-light capabilities (the street is still lit up with street lights), and good resolution so that the next time they come around to break something, I can get their faces on video and take them to court to press criminal charges. I don’t care about size or how noticeable the camera is (in fact, if they notice it, maybe they’ll finally leave me alone). I just need something that has good resolution, maybe a zoom capability, good low-light capabilities, and if it has internal recording- enough to record for around 8 hours.

I know this a complicated request for advice, but any help would be greatly appreciated. I’m going into a uspy store tomorrow, and if I can’t find something better, cheaper elsewhere, I would at least want to know what I was looking for so they don’t swindle me.

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Looks like yahoo’s a little confused.
buildingbeautiful, I know what you mean. Thing is with this, every time they do something, they cause at least $800 worth of damages, and I don’t exactly have that kind of money to shell out all the time.

I really just want to catch them so I can press charges, get a restraining order, and sue for damages. Maybe they will get the message that it’s time to grow up then.
Kate, I said it would be inside my house, pointed out the window at them. If they break into my house to knock the camera down so they can vandalize my car… then they’re just stupid.

To clarify, there’s street lights, but they don’t make it super bright out at night. There’s trees sporadically on the block, including in front of my house, although I usually don’t park directly in front of my house.

I need something that can pick up a clear image of them at 100 feet or so, so it can serve as damning evidence in court.

http://cgi.ebay.com/MOTION-ACTIVATED-CAMO-GAME-CAMERA-DVR-NIGHT-VISION_W0QQitemZ200434192378QQcategoryZ52505QQcmdZViewItem#vi-content

This is what you need. Motion activated night vision capable security camera, designed to see game in the woods.

Good range, good price, and the video will be of high enough quality to get a positive ID on the idiots.

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Yo why should we break up?
If we keep making up
I mean lets just stay together

Verse 1
I know,
together we make this relationship a little harder at least on ourselves (selves)
We give and we take from each other some much
that I feel we dont need no one else (else)
We fuss and we fight then the next day we tight
this is crazy girl you need some help (help)

Chorus
Girl if you pull up to my window
Imma take your order (order)
Anything you want girl you know Ill get it for ya (for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby,
you know I gotta spoil ya (spoil ya)
For the rest of my life Im ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (up)
If we only make up (up)
I aint gonna stop now I gotta front you the only one I want girl (girl)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

Verse 2
Ah, we woke with the birds and this is soft spoken words
That would lead you right into my arms
The perfect equation like mx+b= why we are probably apart(apart)
The no one on this earth is like Ms. Butterworth it
someone that I could do anything for (for)
It seems like your pouring your heart away

Chorus
But if you pull up to my window
Imma take your order (order)
Anything you want girl you know Ill get it for ya (for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby, you know I gotta spoil ya (spoil ya)
For the rest of my life Im ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (up)
If we only make up (up)
I aint gonna stop now I gotta front you the only one I want girl (girl)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

Verse 3
In the middle of the night I be wondering why
Why you aint right here
Many days that go by and I aint gon lie I neeed you right here
My baby but after all call me crazy, but your like a drug
Summer kiss daily and we get back in love
Cupid in the sky cause girl you I-I-I love you
And I know sometimes we struggle you are the piece to the puzzle
Come here take a ride
Someone to. . .

Chorus
Pull up to my window
Imma take your order (Imma take your order)
Anything you want girl you know Ill get it for ya (You now Ill get it for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby, you know I gotta spoil ya (You know I gotta spoil ya)
For the rest of my life Im ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (Why oh why, why)
If we only make up (If we only make up)
I aint gonna stop now I gotta front you the only one I want girl (I aint gonna stop)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

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Tips To Get Your Ex Back

Whenever a break up happens you feel miserable and down for days and even weeks after. You want to get your ex back and you can’t stop thinking about them. Do they still care about you? What can you do to get back in their radar again and get that second chance you’ve been spending so much time thinking about? So far everything you’ve tried has been unsuccessful.

Don’t worry

Your ex is not gone yet. Don’t get discouraged because your first few attempts have not worked. Here are some tips that will help you get then back. Some of these can be hard or difficult to follow, but they are proven to work and increase your chances of being reunited with your ex again.

apologizing

Whether you think you’re right or wrong in whatever argument caused the break up, you need to give them a heartfelt apology. You may think you have already done this, but it may not have worked because your ex didn’t think you sincerely meant what you said. You need to know what you’re going to say or have an outline in your head of what you plan to say before giving them an apology as well. This will make the chance for a surprising outbursts go down to a minimum. Those can lead to fights that will only make it harder to get them back and push them farther away.

keep your cool

You need to keep your cool and maintain your composure when talking with your ex. The last impression you want to have is to make them think you’re desperate and clingy. Your ex wants someone who is confident, self-assured, and who feels good about themselves. This was the kind of person they fell for the first time and can easily fall for again, if you can just bring that back out of you. Until you can talk to them without losing your composure you need to keep clear of your ex.

meet and talk with your ex

Finally, a way you can amplify all of the above when you meet and talk with your ex, is to improve and care about your appearance. This also shows you are confident and you’ll be oozing the self-assurance you’ll need to make them pay attention to you. I understand style may not be your thing, but your ex will definitely notice the change. You don’t have to go overboard with the makeover, but wear some nicer clothes, change your hair style up a bit, whatever feels within your comfort zone. Looking good is a great way to set the foundation for restoring your confidence and to help you keep composure when you do talk to your ex

Want a step-by-step plan to get Your ex back?

the magic of making up is the book that helped me finally find the
answers I was looking for. This book is writen for anyone that wants to get their ex back. either a guy trying to get his ex-girlfriend back, or, a girl trying to get her ex-boyfriend back. It gave me a 30 day step by step plan to follow, at first it was easy to follow
and it made perfect sense. as time went on It got a little bit harder. I found myself doubting some of the strategies in this book,
I thought for sure some of the strategies would drive my ex farther away! but I stuck to the plan. And guess what, I got my ex back within two months. And even after I got my ex back this book still
had lots of great advice for slowly easing back in to my relationship so my ex will never leave me again. we’ve been together ever since and now life is GREAT. if you want to learn more about the magic of making up click on the link to the right, or go to: http://www.getexgirlback.com/2

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Whether or not there is signs your ex wants you back, find out how to get your ex back.

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There are many “potholes on the road to love,” says therapist Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D., who stresses that despite the heady emotions involved, loving is a skill that needs to be learned: “It’s very easy to ‘fall’ in love, but very few people know how to stay in love.” Weil teaches “Smart Heart Skills” to strengthen a relationship when you’re tempted to abandon it. You learn how to “connect, disconnect, and reconnect” with your partner.

This book has plenty of substance. Weil describes the typical problems that couples experience, explains what’s going on and why, and teaches skills to overcome those problems. For example, are you a Pursuer or a Distancer? How about your partner? What can you do to ease the other’s fears and create a healthy bond? How can you “fight fair”? Why is it important to do family-of-origin work? Frequent tips, self-tests, dialogues, case studies, and the author’s personal stories make the information easy to read and absorb. And if you think you have a history of awful dates, wait until you read the author’s horror stories!

Although more than 60 percent of modern marriages end in divorce, Weil claims that 98 percent of the couples who learn and use her program make up instead of break up. And 98 percent of her single patients who learn these tools end up in love and marrying, usually within a year or two. This book is endorsed by two relationship biggies: Harville Hendrix and John Gray. –Joan Price

From Library Journal
New York magazine named Weil one of New York City’s top therapists; she has been featured on many TV shows, published her work in many magazines, and written a best seller, Adultery: The Forgivable Sin. All this makes it hard to understand why her current effort is so lackluster. Here she struggles to pick an audience, dealing at first with long-term relationships but then throwing in a section on dating. Feminists will find much to quibble with in this book. For example, Weil encourages readers to work with current relationships rather than getting new ones but never tempers this advice with any caution regarding abusive partners. She also keeps telling women that they need to be the “Connection Guardians,” since they have innate knowledge about relationships. Finally, she refers constantly to the “Smart Heart” skills she developed and to her own success with them in her marriage with Jeff, the Prince, which can grate. Not particularly recommended, but demand will probably warrant purchase.APamela A. Matthews, Gettysburg Coll. Lib., PA
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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I know, together we make this relationship a little harder at least on ourselves (selves)
We give and we take from each other some much that i feel we don’t need no one else (else)
We fuss and we fight then the next day we tight this is crazy girl you need some help (help)

Chorus
Girl if you pull up to my window
Imma take your order (order)
Anything you want girl you know i’ll get it for ya (for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby, you know i gotta spoil ya (spoil ya)
For the rest of my life i’m ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (up)
If we only make up (up)
I ain’t gonna stop now i gotta front you the only one i want girl (girl)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

Ah, we woke with the birds and this is soft spoken words
That would lead you right into my arms
The perfect equation like m x plus b equal y we are probably apart(apart)
The no one on this earth is like missed but is worth it someone that i could do anything for (for)
It seems like your pouring your heart away

Chorus
But if you pull up to my window
Imma take your order (order)
Anything you want girl you know i’ll get it for ya (for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby, you know i gotta spoil ya (spoil ya)
For the rest of my life i’m ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (up)
If we only make up (up)
I ain’t gonna stop now i gotta front you the only one i want girl (girl)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

In the middle of the night i be wondering why
Why you ain’t right here
Many days that go by and i ain’t gon lie i need you right here
My baby but after all call me crazy, but your like a drug
Summer kiss daily and we get back in love
Cupid in the sky cause girl you i-i-i love you
And i know sometimes we struggle you are the piece to the puzzle
Come here take a ride
So won’t ya…

Chorus
Pull up to my window
Imma take your order (imma take your order)
Anything you want girl you know i’ll get it for ya (you now i’ll get it for ya)
Say you wanna be my baby, you know i gotta spoil ya (you know i gotta spoil ya)
For the rest of my life i’m ready to enjoy us

So why the we break up (why oh why, why)
If we only make up (if we only make up)
I ain’t gonna stop now i gotta front you the only one i want girl (i ain’t gonna stop)
So why the we break up
If we only make up

Duration : 0:5:47

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