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we dated for two months and in the beginning of our relationship he mentioned a girl on his facebook and said that she made his ex gf really insecure and jealous because of how pretty she was. he is friends with this girl and slept with her in high-school which was 6-7 years ago. the girl basically looks like a japanese-american version of a barbie. you know the type :straighten their hair, wear the false eyelashes, perfect tan, perfect makeup, designer clothes with matching purses, all the jewlery. shes one of those girls. although i am pretty i am not a barbie im more of a jeans and t-shirt let my hair airdry and wear a little bit of makeup type. my ex was very controlling and always trying to go through my phone and emails and we only hung out on his terms etc. after he brought up that girl in a convo i started several fights about it (3wks ago) because i thought it was odd hed tell me about her. anyways he broke it off with me the other day when i didnt submit to his control…which he usually does to scare me and then calls a few days later but i said "this time im done with you…i took the relationship off of facebook and have not contacted him. then i went onto his page to delete him and saw in the storyline "mitch has written on heather’s wall" and he wrote "hey stranger how r u?" heather being the girl he kinda brings up to make me feel insecure in the past. he never writes on anyones wall or makes comments atleast not in the past 3 months. do u think he is doing this to make me jealous?

First of all, this question would fall under the "Singles & dating" section rather than Psychology.

Now to answer your question, Maybe he’s trying to make you jealous but what I really think is he’s trying to get in Heather’s pants now that you’re history. Move on and go for a less controlling guy.

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Just yesterday my bf broke up with me. He said we can stay as friends. I love him so much. I was begging him on the phone that we stay together. He came to my house as a friend after he told me that’s it over in dating and we spoke of we’re friends and will stay close. He was telling me he was having a hard time explaining and i still dont understand. he said about are differences, but I don’t see many. Any way, how can I get him back without asking him myself and begging him. I love him so much. What can I do?

pretend like you have moved on. As a man, I know that we hate the thought of the women we love being able to just move on and get over us.

I would suggest starting with changing your screen name, if he knows it, that is.

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I am scorpio , and my bf is pisces,. We understand each other insecurity, but most of the time pisces is too emo/paranoid for me. I have mars in Aquarius maybe thats why I like freedom, but i dont care I will replenish my nature just to make him happy.
I try my best to please his possesive attitude (no makeup, no close friends, just him) but that not seem enough, He complain almost to every relationship I have with my friends, even family members. He also worried that I will leave him , EVERYday. How to confince him? I really love him, and I dont want him to be stressed. I want him to feel better and understand that I will love him always no matter what.

I’m a Scorpio married to a Pisces. Doesn’t sound like my husband or any other Pisces I know of.

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Hi, I need advice.
Basically me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years and a half, those three years were magical we never had a single problem. I never lied to him he never lied to me we never argued. Unfortunately some guy called kris came into our life who had a massive crush on me, at first i ignored it because i was in love with andy (my bf) but andy got agressive with me one day and i was scared of him a little and didnt trust him that much, kris was texting me and giving me lots of attention and i began to have a little crush on him, but i didnt tell andy because i was scared and still loved him. andy found out and was upset because i didnt tell him, but he nearly left me but realised i couldnt help it and came back to me, he told me not to text kris anymore to which i said ok, so i did stop texting kris.. but about a month on kris started texting me (by this time i was over kris and only saw him as a friend) i told him to leave me alone but ended up feeling guilty and texting him as a friend again.. andy left me again but realised it wasnt my fault i just felt guilty because kris was using a guilt trip on me.
He said look if you get rid of kris this time we will be together.. so i did i blocked kris on facebook and got completely new number and everything because i wanted him to leave me alone, but about two weeks ago i got a message from kris.. i dont know how the hell he got my number.. but instead of telling andy like i should of done or blocking him on my phone i was just telling him to go away and leave me alone because i want to get on with my life. andy saw the messages in my phone and left me because he thought i had lied to him. I showed him the messages from me saying to kris leave me alone but he said it doesnt matter its the fact u lied to me. So i let him be and we met up the thursday he started crying and saying *i still love you* and was looking deep into my eyes and nearly kissed me. Then he got angry with himself for doing it and saying we wll never be together and to leave him alone to get over me. So i did then he started texting me asking how I am etc… its so confusing.. how do i win him back.. i know he still loves me and misses me.. he tells me xx
andy has left me by the way!! i think i forgot to put that. Also i have blocked kris on my mobile because he was harassing me and threatend to rape me.. i showed andy this xx
yes I LOVE andy so much ive been heartbroken
well i keep begging him to come back but he just says no.. but then he keeps texting me asking how i am and the other day he nearly kissed me

A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/

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Well… I had a friend who broke up with her bf but she was insistent that they continued being friends. It took eleven months and another relationship on his part before he realized that he still loved her… thanks to the constant speaking they did… now they’re together.
The friendship route once you put no pressure on, usually works. But remember why is she an ex to begin with….? Is it possible that rekindling the flames isn’t such a good idea,

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