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how do i approach my friend about a possible abusive relationship?

The reason why i’m having a difficult time with this is because we’re not BEST friends, we talk in school and we had a step team we were on and we hung out then, but that was 2 years ago. She started dating this guy in my neighboorhood, and she used to dress really cute and was fit, now she put on some pounds and only dresses in baggy clothing,sometimes the same clothing. no makeup, or messy makeup, hair always messy and up.shes always over there, and almost always sleeps over.he failed a year and is a senior in high school and shes a young junior in high school, about 4 years difference.
at first i thought it was the ‘boyfriend’ phase, i had mine too.always hanging out, put on a pound or two and dressed more casual.
but this is a little bit more extreme, and i didn’t start to worry until today at school, she had a huge black eye and other bruises. i asked my friend about it, and she said that when he used to date this other girl, that she always had bruises on her arms, too.which i also realized as she said this.
I don’t want to approach it the wrong way and have her get mad, especially if i’m not the first one to do so. My mom was in a very abusive relationship with my dad, and i don’t want to see her go through one because shes too beautiful and too young, and too good for him to be in an abusive relationship.
so should i go to her?or a counselor? a teacher? what do i say?

I think you should tell her that your worried about her and you could even tell her that your mom was in a very abusive relationship, and that your only saying all this stuff because you don’t want to see her to go through that. Some people don’t take it very well and go into denial because they only hear what they want to, in that case i would probably talk to either a counselor or a teacher and tell them whats going on and that your scared for your friend. Once she realizes that you care enough she’ll thank you!
Hope everything goes well.

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Insights Into Dating Irish Men

Dating Irish men can be pretty exciting; no matter whether you are Irish or from another culture. Dating Irish men is just like dating your average male who is single. However, there are certain things that you can do to ensure that you date an Irish guy in the best way possible. You must know what the characteristics of Irish men are so that you can have a key to unlock what they are all about. Irish people are one of the most charming people in Europe and they are known to be great when it comes to building relationships. Their deep value for family will see them make for responsible mates when you are in relationships with them. If you have ever dated an Irish, you probably know that there is no dull moment. They like to kick back and have good clean fun. If you are looking to compare them with westerners, you will find that there is no comparison. The Irish like to do it traditionally in a way that is unique to them.

Dating Irish men will require you to have some values which include the following. First, you need to be open to a different culture than the one you are used to. Take time to feel what their ways are like and then judge for you. Women from all cultures have managed to find great pleasure in their new found way. Remember that something different is always interesting and, you will get sucked in their mannerisms as you get to explore love. It is almost like a poetic experience when you love an Irish; and dating for you will be nothing less than pleasurable. You need to be an honest person who is full of life and love. Love is the very center of their world and their traditional love that is undying will suit you just right. Do not worry about this because you will definitely be inspired to love as you date. Dating Irish men is not a perfect experience and as you will discover, we all have flaws.

While dating Irish men, you have to look beyond certain flaws and seek ways of making it better. When you really enter into a dating relationship with someone that you actually admire, you will be in a position to work things out. Therefore be open to forgiveness and you will cement a loving relationship that will last for a long time. As you continue to date, you will have the opportunity to really learn what the Irish boy is about, with time, you will be happy for making a love connection. In other dating instances, women never manage to make this connection. Love is not always easy and it takes one to appreciate and understand their partner. Have fun as you look for exciting ways to take your relationship to another level. As a woman of a different culture, it is pretty normal to feel strange as you begin dating. Chances are that they will find you also very strange. However, taking time will bring you closer to establish strong bonds.

Francis Githinji
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/insights-into-dating-irish-men-750679.html

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Is Your Ex STILL Ignoring You?

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ICARLY cast on dating rumors!

Miranda Cosgrove, Jennette McCurdy & Nathan Kress pose for the APR08 issue of Popstar! Magazine (popstarmagazine.com, myspace.com/popstarmagazine) and N & J take time out to debunk some dating RUMORS!

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Know Yourself Before Dating

Dating is a beautiful way to find a partner. dating gives us an opportunity to know our prospective partner better and vice versa. With dating, we can decide if we are made for each other? If we succeed in taking a proper decision we will have a smooth life ahead that will have no pot holes on the way. Before we begin dating, should we not know ourselves better? Our personality, our strengths and weaknesses and what are we seeking from our partner?

Do you want to find someone who you can love as much as you want, or are you looking for someone who will love you to satisfy your need of being loved? This is important to know. Some of us never got as much love as we wanted, so we look around for a partner who will make us feel satisfied and worthy of love. Or we may wish to find a person who we can love to our hearts desire. This is important distinction and please look into your motives before searching for a dating partner. In either of the cases you will be looking forward to a different kind of person to succeed.

Are you confident about yourself? Do you feel threatened if you commit? Does the thought of living with someone you know only for a small time fill you with anxiety? Many of us are not ready to commit at all. After some time of dating, such people break the relationship because they feel threatened. If you are such a person, think about your mental makeup carefully and better talk about this to your dating partner or a friend in whom you have faith. Feeling threatened will always make you back out at the last moment and your efforts will always go waste without your realizing the real reason.

Are you looking for a partner who will protect you from this world. Like a little kid, do you want to go back to Mom and feel safe. If that is the case, please search for someone who wants to protect his/her beloved. To know about yourself and to find out what you are seeking in a relationship that will make you happy is essential to find out who fits the bill for you. Please find out more about yourself before entering the beautiful game of dating.

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Cdmohatta
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