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do you think my ex bf is trying to make me jealous?
July 20th, 2010 | 
Author: we dated for two months and in the beginning of our relationship he mentioned a girl on his facebook and said that she made his ex gf really insecure and jealous because of how pretty she was. he is friends with this girl and slept with her in high-school which was 6-7 years ago. the girl basically looks like a japanese-american version of a barbie. you know the type :straighten their hair, wear the false eyelashes, perfect tan, perfect makeup, designer clothes with matching purses, all the jewlery. shes one of those girls. although i am pretty i am not a barbie im more of a jeans and t-shirt let my hair airdry and wear a little bit of makeup type. my ex was very controlling and always trying to go through my phone and emails and we only hung out on his terms etc. after he brought up that girl in a convo i started several fights about it (3wks ago) because i thought it was odd hed tell me about her. anyways he broke it off with me the other day when i didnt submit to his control…which he usually does to scare me and then calls a few days later but i said "this time im done with you…i took the relationship off of facebook and have not contacted him. then i went onto his page to delete him and saw in the storyline "mitch has written on heather’s wall" and he wrote "hey stranger how r u?" heather being the girl he kinda brings up to make me feel insecure in the past. he never writes on anyones wall or makes comments atleast not in the past 3 months. do u think he is doing this to make me jealous?
First of all, this question would fall under the "Singles & dating" section rather than Psychology.
Now to answer your question, Maybe he’s trying to make you jealous but what I really think is he’s trying to get in Heather’s pants now that you’re history. Move on and go for a less controlling guy.
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He might be doing it to make you jealous, he might have brought her up to sort of test the waters and test your security level. However from everything you said he doesn’t seem like that great of a catch. He sounds like a manipulative and controlling person, and I think you should be glad that he’s no longer in your life. Move on and find someone more mature, worth your time and your love, who doesn’t play games.
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Probably. He sounds very manipulative, he’s probably hoping that it may change your mind to see he is in contact with her. Or he may be thinking of moving to trying to control her, if you refuse to be.
He sounds like a controlling loser who only brought her up in the first pace to ‘keep you on your toes’ and manipulate you into clinging to him more. Good on you for seeing his control issues.
He’s got serious issues (low self esteem and bullying tendencies) to manipulate and control like this and I’d say you are well rid. Count him as a mistake in your past and move on. Have no more contact, take him off you fb, block him there and by phone and be glad he didn’t sucker you in.
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First of all, this question would fall under the "Singles & Dating" section rather than Psychology.
Now to answer your question, Maybe he’s trying to make you jealous but what I really think is he’s trying to get in Heather’s pants now that you’re history. Move on and go for a less controlling guy.
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