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Planning Your First Cruise – Things To Consider Part 1
So you’ve heard how great cruise vacations are, and now you’ve decided to take to the high seas for a fortnight of luxury and pampering. But there’s a lot to think about. So before you select a cruise line, a cruise ship or even get in touch with a travel agent, there are certain issues that are vital to consider.
1) Who is going on the cruise?
Although this question should be easy to answer, it can have a bearing on the type of cruise line and ship that you ultimately choose.
If you and your partner want to take a relaxing cruise, there are many ships that are aimed at couples. In fact some cruise ships actively discourage or even ban people from taking children onboard.
If you will be cruising as a couple, it’s also important to consider the dining situation. On ships with assigned seating, you will have to specify the size of table that you want. However, on many ships, tables for two are in short supply, so if this is an important issue, this may influence your choice of cruise line and ship. Just make sure that you make this clear to your travel agent or the cruise line when booking.
On the other hand, if you want to take your children or travel with the rest of your extended family, there are certain cruise lines and ships within cruise lines that are specifically tailored with family vacations in mind.
2) How much have you got to spend?
It’s possible to find a cruise vacation to suit almost any budget. So before you go any further it’s important to work out how much you’re willing to spend on your holiday.
But as a general rule, you’ll need to set aside at least $150 per person per day to cover the cost of your cruise. However, bigger cabins in more luxurious ships can cost many times this figure.
However, it is possible to get more for your money if you;
a) Book early: Most cruise lines are willing to give generous discounts if you book your cruise 6-12 months in advance.
b) Book late: Likewise, if you book within 2 months of setting sail, most cruise lines will give you hefty discounts to fill the remaining cabins.
3) How long have you got?
The number of days that you want your vacation to last will determine the type and location of cruises that are available to you.
If you only have a few days, the main option is a one port cruise. This means that the ship leaves port sails around the sea/ocean for two or three days and then returns to the same port. The ship doesn’t call at any other ports, but it does give you a few days at sea. This is a good way to get the feel for a certain cruise ship, or even cruising in general.
If you have a week to spare, this gives you more choices. If you live in the US, this gives you the choice of Hawaii, Alaska, Florida, Mexico or even a Caribbean cruise. If you live in Europe this will give you access to the mediterranean, north africa, or even a nordic cruise.
Alternatively, if you want to increase the number of locations available, you could fly to and from the start/finish location of your cruise or take a one way cruise either flying to the start location or flying home after disembarkation.
If you have two weeks or longer, you can cruise almost any part of the world.
4) What time of the year?
The time of year that you take your cruise will have a major affect on two issues;
a) The Price: As with all forms of travel, your holiday will cost more during the peak season. In contrast, most cruises are cheaper in the spring or fall.
Traditionally, the winter was considered the high season for Caribbean destinations, but due to the weight of supply and demand (people who have to take their vacation during the summer) the summertime costs are almost on a par with the cost of a winter Caribbean cruise.
b) The Locations Available: The time of year that you take your cruise will also determine the locations that are available. Although this won’t make much difference to the more mainstream locations such as the Caribbean or the Mediterranean, certain places have a distinct cruise season.
If you want to go to Alaska or northern Europe, the main cruise season lasts from May till September.
For Antartica, the season is even shorter, running from November to February.
Although the tropical regions are in season all year, there is a great variation in the amount of rainfall throughout the year. Locations such as the Caribbean will have less rain during the summer months and more rain during the winter months.
And finally, although not a restriction as such, some people prefer to avoid places that may be affected by the hurricane season. If a cruise ship encounters a storm it will alter its route to avoid it, which means you may miss certain places that you wanted to visit.
5) What part of the world do you want to visit?
You can cruise almost anywhere in the world, even landlocked countries are often available to explore through river cruises. So it’s no surprise that this is one of the hardest decisions for cruise newcomers to make.
The amount of days that you have for your vacation will narrow your options, but beyond that, consider other issues, such as;
If you want to or have to take your vacation at a certain time of the year, which locations are available?
If you particularly want to use a certain cruise line, which locations do their ships visit?
What type of weather and climate do you prefer?
Are there any particular landmarks that you want to visit?
Are there any activities or adventures that you want to experience?
Now all you have to do it to get in touch with your travel agent.
Kristen Olsen
http://www.articlesbase.com/travel-articles/planning-your-first-cruise-things-to-consider-part-1-129768.html
She has other male friends and it bothers me. What should I do?
I have been seeing a woman for about two weeks. I really like her. We have talked about ex-partners from past relationships. In the course of conversation, I have discovered that she has seen ex-boyfriends, after she broke up with them, and also sees gay male friends, one of which is o an ex-boyfriend who is confused about his sexual identity and has told her that he loves her. At this point I just have bits and pieces. She went on a cruise with a gay male. She has gone out to lunch, dinner and drinks with ex-boyfriends. She goes out for dinner and drinks with a group of friends and I believe that one or more ex-boyfriends are part of the group. When we have gone out, I have noticed that she usually has more than one cocktail. She has mentioned to me that when she goes out with friends, individual or group, she sometimes loses count of how many drinks she has had and has blacked out sometimes.It has all happened so fast. Two weeks and three dates so far. We have not even established what we are. Friends? Boyfriend/girlfriend? She has asked me if I am seeing anyone now, if I am now single and unattached. I told her I am. Although I may bump into female friends at work, or on the street, I really do not maintain relationships with members of the opposite sex. I work with women and sometimes we go out to lunch or after work as a group. Other than that, I do not have any female friends that I go out with other than this one particular lady I have been seeing recently. It disturbs me that she has seen, since our first date, a gay male friend for dinner, gone out for drinks with a group of friends including an ex-boyfriend, and went out for lunch with an ex-boyfriend and accepted a hope chest as a gift from him. The "date" with the ex-boyfriend was lunch at an expensive restaurant, he spent the lunchtime talking about how she had been a great influence on changing his life for the better, they cried together and he seemed to be saying things like the lunch was a plan for the two of them to get back together, and after lunch he bought her a hope chest and she accepted the gift.
Do I need to have a heart to heart conversation with my friend and set boundaries with her?
I do not want her going out on "dates" with ex-boyfriends and other males. Whether they are gay or not does not make a difference to me. A man is a man. Many of the men she considers gay have not come out of the closet and it sounds like they are either bisexual or have a sexual/lifestyle identity crisis.
Why do women insist on setting up boundaries for men (Are you single and unattached? Are you married, separated, divorced? How long ago did you divorce? Are you seeing other women? How long ago did you break up with your ex) and then do not establish any boundaries for themselves? Shouldn’t setting boundaries be for the couple?
I have gone out with women who consider it okay to get drunk and stay overnight at the homes of other males. One excuse is that they are gay so they are safe. Another excuse is that he is an ex-boyfriend and he goes with another woman. I do not feel comfortable with dating a woman who also goes out with gay men and ex-boyfriends for drinks and either stays overnight at their places or invites them to talk all night at her place. I do not feel comfortable with my girlfriend going out for drinks and spending the night with other men. I do not accept being gay or being an ex-boyfriend as excuses that these friendships are Platonic and "safe." The only man she should be spending the night with should be me. I do not have any other women in my life except her. Gay men, ex-boyfriends, and other Platonic male friends are men that I consider to be "other men still in her business." I date a woman, we break up, and it’s over. I do not carry on unfinished business with ex-girlfriends, bi sexual women who tell me that they think they are in love with me, nor do I go out for drinks and spend the night with other female friends on a Platonic level. I need a partner that thinks the way I do.
Do I need to set boundaries with this woman? Do I need to ask her to define what we now have together? Are we boyfriend/girlfriend? Can we agree to go out, exclusively? Do we need to be honest about telling each other about friendships we have with other members of the opposite sex?
Lastly, are you in a relationship in which your partner has friends that include ex-partners and Platonic friends? Has your partner ever broken a date with you to see one of these people? How do you feel about your partner going out for coffee, drinks, lunch and dinner, nightclubs with dancing, and spending the night at their place with the statement "all we did was talk all night"? Are their levels to this?
Level one- coffee or lunch with a member of the opposite sex with a group
Level two- coffee or lunch at the office with that person one on one
Level three- coffee or lunch outside the office- during the work day- no drinking.
Level four- Drinks or dinner
Timmy my boy, let me explain something to you, there are two kinds of people who date. The first kind are people like you, people who look for a potential spouse. Then there are people like your girl who are social daters.
I STRONGLY recommend that you break up with her. Part as friends if you will but what you’re facing now is what you will be facing if you marry her. You cannot set boundaries on people like her. If she accepts your terms she will be very unhappy. If she accepts your boundaries and the two of you marry, she will resent you for making her give up her friends and change her life.
There are tons of girls who are just like you. They date with the intent on finding a potential spouse. That’s what you need and should look for.
She sounds like a lot of fun to be around but she is NOT for you.
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